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You might not realize it, but some of our culture’s most beloved figures have died from oral, head, or neck cancer – from Babe Ruth to Sammy Davis, Jr. to George Harrison. But there are also those who survived, like Michael Douglas and Jim Kelly. And working with patients and survivors for over two decades is The Head and Neck Cancer Alliance, who launch their 22nd Annual Oral, Head, and Neck Cancer Awareness Week (OHANCA) in April. From April 13th-19th, over 250 hospitals, clinics, and medical offices around the world were scheduled to provide free screening and education.
The HNCA can trace its roots to another famous figure to ultimately succumb to throat cancer – those of a certain age will remember Oscar winner Yul Brynner, who made an anti-smoking commercial that aired after his death. Brynner also established the Yul Brynner Foundation, which in 1997 merged with the Association for Head and Neck Cancer Awareness, founded by Dr. Terry Day.
According to HNCA’s executive director Amanda Hollinger, OHANCA will highlight the non-profit organization’s ongoing efforts in providing treatment, support, educational resources, and information about prevention. “There’s a strong link between HPV and oral and throat cancer,” Hollinger explains, “so we’re actively focusing on informing people about the HPV vaccine, tying in prevention as well as helping spread awareness of HPV.” Though no simple test can offer a definitive diagnosis, the OHANCA clinics and screening events do have an impact, as Hollinger estimates about 10% of people who are screened get referrals for further examination or treatment. “It’s a good first step,” she says.
This year’s celebrity spokesperson is voice actor Rob Paulsen – a legend in his field, and the talent behind such classic animated characters as Yakko in “Animaniacs,” Pinky in “Pinky and the Brain,” and Donatello in “Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles.” “Rob is so special because his voice is his livelihood, and it connects him to so many generations of people,” says Hollinger.
ABOUT ROB PAULSEN
Maybe you don’t know Rob Paulsen, but you know Pinky and the Brain, Animaniacs, Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles, Jimmy Neutron Boy Genius, and most of the other animated projects that Paulsen has been part of as a voice actor for nearly three decades. With over 2,000 (yes, that’s right) half-hour programs and dozens of films, video games, and other animated media to his credit, Paulsen has been one of the hardest working, most in-demand, and most beloved voice artists in the industry, earning (so far) a Daytime Emmy and Peabody, three times winning the Annie Award (for voice actors).
But he’s also just won the biggest fight of his life – defeating cancer of the throat after a grueling year of aggressive treatment – and with a renewed passion for his craft, he’s finding some new challenges and some old familiar faces there to guide him into the next phase of his career. In addition to continuing his immensely popular podcast and video series Talkin’ Toons on Nerdist, and having just set a slew of new dates for Animaniacs In Concert! which is performed with live music and voices in symphony halls and theatres. The other franchise with which Paulsen has been associated for two generations – Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles – will also return, with Paulsen for the first time assuming the role of director, getting to work on the other side of the glass.
News of Paulsen’s lengthy illness and forced hiatus might come as a surprise to some, as upon the news of his diagnosis, Paulsen chose to keep his cancer private except for family and those closest to him in his professional career. “Everybody’s got their own stuff to deal with, and this was my turn,” he recalls today, now still recovering but officially cancer free. “I’ve had a damn good ride up to now, and if the worst had happened, it was okay, I had a 35 year run, so I didn’t feel the need to say anything.” That’s not to mitigate the particularly ironic horror of one of the industry’s top voice actors getting a disease that attacked his very livelihood: but the same success that was now in jeopardy is the same thing that afforded him a healthy perspective.
“It was the people who I met throughout my career who were affected by cancer that were my inspiration,” he explains. Because of his beloved characters, he’s frequently met or spoken with hundreds of infirm children who had their wishes come true via a conversation with Pinky or Donatello. “Their parents keep in touch with me when those kids pass away,” Paulsen says, “saying ‘we can’t tell you how much your shows mean to our kids.’ That opportunity, to bring that into their lives, that gave me the example to deal with my own pretty intense circumstances. I had these great teachers.”
Born in Detroit and attending high school in Grand Blanc, the proud Michigander soon realized that he “didn’t quite have the talent, temperament, nor dental insurance to become a professional hockey player.” Paulsen quickly turned to his second love, music, as a way of making a career for himself. More than just a would-be rock band frontman (although he did discover that “chicks dig rock singers”), Paulsen listened to a wide variety of music and learned how to read music. That time and dedication to the craft, he believes, started to train his ear, eye, and voice to work together in a wide array of styles.
He didn’t realize it at the time, but those are exactly the kind of skills that makes for a great voice actor. Arriving in Los Angeles in the late 1970s, he intended to pursue live action work, working a bit on series television. He also studied at the Groundlings, Los Angeles’ legendary comedy/improvisation troupe, where he befriended and had the opportunity to work with some of the group’s notable members like Phil Hartman, Paul Reubens, Lynne Marie Stewart, John Paragon, Cassandra Peterson, and Laraine Newman. The training added to Paulsen’s comedy skills, and allowed him to pursue a passion he had harbored since childhood. “I had a pretty good ear as a kid, and was always interested in comedians like Pat Paulsen, Foster Brooks, Red Skelton, Carol Burnett, and Jonathan Winters, people who weren’t only funny, but great at doing characters,” he says of his influences. “Then I discovered the Goon Show, with Peter Sellers, and eventually Monty Python – that’s when I started working on dialects.” That British influence would provide the inspiration for the unlikely voice of the lab rat, Pinky, whose foolish, good-natured British twang is the perfect counterpoint to the Brain’s sinister, dead-on reimagining of Orson Welles as voiced by Maurice LaMarche.
Early voice work on series such as the animated G.I. Joe brought Paulsen in contact with the world of professional voice actors at a time when the profession and the industry was just about to explode. Along with industry vets like Frank Welker, Tress MacNeille, Billy West, John DiMaggio, and LaMarche, Paulsen became a part of the “next generation” of great voice artists following in the tradition of Mel Blanc, June Foray, Arthur Q. Bryan, Hans Conried, Don Messick, and Bea Benadaret. G.I. Joe lead to an audition at Hanna-Barbara for a revival of the classic series Jonny Quest. Paulsen landed the role of Hadji, Jonny’s Indian-born adopted brother, and he knew he had found a career. “I’m an average-looking white guy from Michigan,” he says incredulously. “In real life I would never get to play that character, or a teenage turtle, or whatever. This was a gig where I was really only limited by my own imagination, not by my type I was or the way I looked.” Paulsen credits veteran television director Gordon Hunt for casting him and mentoring him at a key point in his career. “I quickly learned about how to be creative and think on your feet, and not be encumbered by how you see yourself. That is absolutely integral to my success.”
That early success came right at the advent of the cable revolution and the millennial baby boom, and there was suddenly a demand for family-oriented programming that would enchant young viewers as well as their parents – parents who had their own connections and memories to animation from years of growing up watching cartoons on Saturday morning. Disney, Warner Brothers, and Hanna-Barbara all started reviving old series and creating new ones, while networks like Nickelodeon and syndication outlets began demanding more original daytime programming. Paulsen and his colleagues have worked for all of them, using their incredible talents to literally bring to life some of the most beloved original characters of a generation while simultaneously bringing back to life the classic characters of yesteryear.
“I was almost a victim of my own ageism,” he says. You see, Paulsen was the original voice of Raphael on the first Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtle series – an early project that unexpectedly became a pop culture sensation. A quarter of a century after that original series, Paulsen was approached about doing the reboot of TMNT – but to audition for Donatello. “I wondered – did they know that I did the original Raphael? Are they sure they wanted me to do the job? I’m a white guy in his late fifties.” It turned out that the new producers had been raised on the original series and were thrilled that Paulsen might be available to work with them. That generation of millennials who grew up in the world of Paulsen’s characters are now his colleagues. “And it reminded me again – nobody cares what you look like, and how much that makes me more passionate for my job and having fun with it.”
He’s also moved his successful Nerdist podcast Talkin’ Toons to video format (http://nerdist.com/videos/talkin-toons/), and has recently announced seven dates for Animaniacs in Concert!, beginning in New York City in October, and extending across the nation into 2018 (with more dates to be announced shortly). And he’s begun working on a memoir about his life and career.
That career even has more meaning now that Paulsen is on the mend – he’s still gaining back some of the 50 pounds he has lost, and there’s at least another year of recovery work ahead as his throat and voice regain strength after months of brutal radiation. But he sees now that as modest and genuine as his need to downplay his illness may have been, he’s not just another one of a legion of cancer survivors. “There are millions of people who have beaten cancer, but because of what I do for a living, it has a little more weight. It all circles back to the deep attachment people have to these characters I’ve been lucky enough to play. I can not only continue to make a living, but make a difference, and I can’t wait to use that on the biggest scale that I can.
Sunday, April 5, 2020
April 13, 2020 @9:15am - author Rob Harrell joins Janeane on KUCI 88.9fm to talk about his latest book, WINK
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Based on Rob's own cancer battle, WINK offers support for kids everywhere dealing with illness and trying to get by. WINK is an unforgettable novel that readers can’t afford to miss.
Ross Maloy wants nothing more than to be a normal seventh grader. He doesn’t want to lose his hair, or wear a weird hat, or deal with the disappearing friends who don’t know what to say to “the cancer kid.” But with his recent diagnosis of a rare eye cancer, blending in is off the table. Based on Rob Harrell’s own experience with eye cancer (at the time, only the 25th diagnosis of its kind), this personal novel is an illustration that there are still beautiful things to gain in the face of incredible loss.
Ross handles his life-threatening illness—including the painful and often embarrassing treatment that comes with it—and classmates’ heartbreakingly cruel jokes about him with endearing sarcasm and humor. Told with wit, charm, and the hilarious comics of Ross’ superhero character Batpig, WINK is an unforgettable story of unexpected friendships, the importance of family, and an enduring hope that things can get better.
ABOUT THE AUTHOR:
Rob Harrell created the Life of Zarf series, the graphic novel Monster on the Hill, and also writes and draws the long-running daily comic strip Adam@Home, which appears in more than 140 papers worldwide. He created and drew the internationally syndicated comic strip Big Top until 2007. He lives with his wife in Indiana. You can find Rob online at www.robharrell.com and on Twitter @HarrellRob.
April 13, 2020 @9am pst - STRUNG OUT One Last Hit and Other Lies That Nearly Killed Me by Erin Khar
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Erin Khar's just-released memoir, Strung Out: One Last Hit and Other Lies That Nearly Killed Me. The opioid crisis is nightly news in America, responsible for over 47,000 deaths every year – nearly two-thirds of all drug related deaths in this country. The question on everyone’s mind is: why? Why do so many people turn to drugs?
When her twelve-year-old son, Atticus, asked her this question, essayist and Ravishly columnist, Erin Khar, needed to look inward before answering. The result was Strung Out: One Last Hit and Other Lies That Nearly Killed Me (Park Row Books), a raw and often shocking meditation on Khar’s fifteen-year opioid addiction and her long, difficult road to recovery.
Growing up in Los Angeles as the only child of divorced parents, Khar, often consumed with loneliness, looked for an escape from the pervasive belief that she wasn’t enough—not enough to keep her parents together or her mother from depression—and yet, she never shared with anyone this private sadness. Instead, she hid behind the façade of a perfect childhood filled with good grades, a popular group of friends, and horseback riding. By thirteen, the act becoming too difficult to keep up, and she started experimenting with her grandmother’s expired valium, quickly followed by heroin. The drug allowed her to feel the calm she was missing from her life and suppress all the heavy feelings she couldn’t understand. Heroin, while keeping her from other forms of self-harm, became the addiction that destroyed her.
STRUNG OUT
One Last Hit and Other Lies That Nearly Killed Me
by Erin Khar
“This vital memoir will change how we look at the opiate crisis and how the media talks about it. A deeply moving and emotional read, STRUNG OUT challenges our preconceived ideas of what addiction looks like.”
— STEPHANIE LAND, New York Times bestselling author of Maid
“[Khar] is such a natural, frank storyteller that Strung Out will likely pull you right back into the story whenever you happen to pick up the book.”—SELF
“Addiction stories are often linear (got hooked, hit bottom, got clean), but Khar instead offers a humanizing portrait not just of her own experience but of an issue that impacts more than two million people in the United States.”—BITCH MEDIA
“Brilliant”—THE MILLIONS
Strung Out is as much about recovery as it is addiction. Khar shows how recovery is a process, one that involves a cycle of relapses and renewed dedication to getting sober. She sagely explores how the shame and stigma surrounding addiction is so often what keeps addicts from getting help. For Khar, it was in motherhood that she found the inner strength and self-forgiveness to quit heroin for good.
An urgent and empathetic personal take on the opioid crisis, Strung Out is a necessary memoir of addiction, recovery, and the lifesaving power of love amidst an epidemic to which no part of society is immune.
More Praise for Erin Khar’s STRUNG OUT
“[A] refreshing perspective…eye-opening and relevant…A necessarily honest and emotional account that ends in earned redemption.”—Kirkus Reviews
“Moving… [Khar’s] heartbreaking yet heartwarming memoir puts a human face on the drug crisis and the factors that lead to addiction.”—Publishers Weekly
About the Author
Erin Khar is known for her writing on addiction, recovery, mental health, relationships, parenting, infertility, and self-care. Her weekly advice column, Ask Erin, is published on Ravishly and brings in over 500K unique readers per month. Her personal essays have appeared in SELF, Marie Claire, Esquire, Cosmopolitan, Good Housekeeping, Redbook, and others. She’s the recipient of the Eric Hoffer Editor’s Choice Prize and her prize-winning essay was featured in Best New Writing 2012 anthology. Her essays have also been published in the Stigma Fighters Anthology (vol 3) and BURN IT DOWN, an anthology edited by Lilly Dancyger. She lives in New York City with her husband and two kids.
STRUNG OUT
by Erin Khar
Park Row Books
Erin Khar is known for her writing on addiction, recovery, mental health, relationships, parenting, infertility, and self-care. Her weekly advice column, Ask Erin, is published on Ravishly and brings in over 500K unique readers per month. Her personal essays have appeared in SELF, Marie Claire, Esquire, Cosmopolitan, Good Housekeeping, Redbook, and others. She’s the recipient of the Eric Hoffer Editor’s Choice Prize and her prize-winning essay was featured in Best New Writing 2012 anthology. Her essays have also been published in the Stigma Fighters Anthology (vol 3) and BURN IT DOWN, an anthology edited by Lilly Dancyger. She lives in New York City with her husband and two kids.
STRUNG OUT
by Erin Khar
Park Row Books
4/6/20 - 9:45am pst - Actor/Writer/Producer Mandy Kaplan joined Janeane on KUCI 88.9fm - streaming www.kuci.org
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ABOUT MANDY
In Ms. Madden's second grade open house when other kids showed off their artwork and told knock knock jokes, Mandy sang a powerful acapella version of “What I did for Love”. The crowd (aka Mandy's mom) went wild. Her fate was sealed.
She has been performing ever since. After dazzling the locals in summer theater camp, Mandy earned a BFA in Musical Theater from Ithaca College. Then it was on to NYC to sing and dance...and do a ton of nannying/bartending/unpaid theater and establish her voice over career.
Now in LA, her VO career has been going strong and supporting her acting/writing/producing projects like her feature film 30 Nights, and her long-running stage show “Miscast: Right Singer Wrong Song.” (Things have really come full circle, huh, Ms. Madden?)
Also, if anyone needs it, she can recite the entire final episode of The Golden Girls and cries every time. EVERY TIME.
Thursday, April 2, 2020
4/6/20 - 9:30am pst - Nathania Stambouli, owner and operator of SoulPlay Yoga, joined host Janeane Bernstein on KUCI's Get the Funk Out Show!
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featuring Nathania Stambouli!
Nathania Stambouli spent 10 years as a Marketing Director in the wholesale industry dreaming about the day she would actually love her job and do something meaningful with her life. Stuck in a toxic relationship and a career that put money in her account but drained her soul dry, she pursued a Master's in Psychology in 2015 and completed her first Yoga Teacher Training. The band-aid was ripped off, the 9-5 was ditched, and Nat began to live her dream of helping people change their life through the practice of yoga.
Nathania now owns and operates SoulPlay Yoga, a diverse, unique boutique studio in downtown Culver City, CA. She is also the founder and co-owner of SoulTribe Adventures, an international retreat company that takes people beyond their comfort zones and into their power on week-long transformative adventures to some of the most beautiful and secluded locations in the world. She also coaches budding entrepreneurs and humans who feel that they are destined for more, to find their path and dare to create their vision. She believes that every single one of us has the capacity to change our circumstances if we’re willing to walk into the fire and do the work. She is a champion for those who aren’t sure they have what it takes, to teach you that YES YOU CAN and to show you the way. The ONLY thing standing in your way is you (and your excuses)!
Nathania is hosting an online event that launches May 1 - Leadership After Loss: How to move beyond grief, reconnect to your power and turn pain into purpose. Catch her FREE online with 20+ experts in the world of grief, loss and leadership and gain valuable insights and tools to make major shifts in your own life. The world is yours if you take it!
Nathania Stambouli, MA, E-RYT 200
Yoga Instructor | Co-Founder & Director @ SoulTribe Adventures | Owner @ SoulPlay Yoga Culver City, CA
featuring Nathania Stambouli!
Nathania Stambouli spent 10 years as a Marketing Director in the wholesale industry dreaming about the day she would actually love her job and do something meaningful with her life. Stuck in a toxic relationship and a career that put money in her account but drained her soul dry, she pursued a Master's in Psychology in 2015 and completed her first Yoga Teacher Training. The band-aid was ripped off, the 9-5 was ditched, and Nat began to live her dream of helping people change their life through the practice of yoga.
Nathania now owns and operates SoulPlay Yoga, a diverse, unique boutique studio in downtown Culver City, CA. She is also the founder and co-owner of SoulTribe Adventures, an international retreat company that takes people beyond their comfort zones and into their power on week-long transformative adventures to some of the most beautiful and secluded locations in the world. She also coaches budding entrepreneurs and humans who feel that they are destined for more, to find their path and dare to create their vision. She believes that every single one of us has the capacity to change our circumstances if we’re willing to walk into the fire and do the work. She is a champion for those who aren’t sure they have what it takes, to teach you that YES YOU CAN and to show you the way. The ONLY thing standing in your way is you (and your excuses)!
Nathania is hosting an online event that launches May 1 - Leadership After Loss: How to move beyond grief, reconnect to your power and turn pain into purpose. Catch her FREE online with 20+ experts in the world of grief, loss and leadership and gain valuable insights and tools to make major shifts in your own life. The world is yours if you take it!
Nathania Stambouli, MA, E-RYT 200
Yoga Instructor | Co-Founder & Director @ SoulTribe Adventures | Owner @ SoulPlay Yoga Culver City, CA
4/6/20 - 9:15am pst - Alicia Doyle joined Janeane on KUCI's Get the Funk Out Show! Boxer Alicia Doyle is a two-time Golden Gloves Champion whose pro debut at age 30 in the year 2000 was named The California Female Fight of the Year. Her nonfiction novel, Fighting Chance, is out now.
LISTEN to today's show featuring Alicia Doyle.
photo credit: Kathy Cruts
Fighting Chance is available on Amazon at
https://www.amazon.com/Fighting-Chance-Alicia-
Doyle/dp/1734508523; and Barnes and Noble
Doyle/dp/1734508523; and Barnes and Noble
at https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/fighting-
chance-alicia-doyle/1136438298?ean=9781734508529
chance-alicia-doyle/1136438298?ean=9781734508529
Fighting Chance can also be purchased through Alicia’s website
https://aliciadoyle.com/.
An autographed copy can be obtained by emailing Alicia directly at alicia@aliciadoyle.com
Book Synopsis:
Based on a true story, Fighting Chance is written by Alicia Doyle, an award-winning journalist who discovered boxing at age twenty-eight in the late 1990s when she went on assignment at a
boxing gym for at-risk youth called Kid Gloves.
Based on a true story, Fighting Chance is written by Alicia Doyle, an award-winning journalist who discovered boxing at age twenty-eight in the late 1990s when she went on assignment at a
boxing gym for at-risk youth called Kid Gloves.
For two years, she simultaneously worked as a newspaper reporter while training and competing as a boxer, making her one of only a few hundred women in America who infiltrated this male-dominated sport. During her boxing career, she won two Golden Gloves championship titles and earned three wins by knockout – and her pro debut at age thirty in the year 2000 was named The California Female Fight of the Year.
Fighting Chance offers an inside look at what’s considered the toughest sport known to man.
Biography:
Alicia Doyle is an award-winning journalist who discovered boxing at age twenty-eight in the
late 1990s when she went on assignment at a boxing gym for at-risk youth called Kid Gloves.
late 1990s when she went on assignment at a boxing gym for at-risk youth called Kid Gloves.
For two years, she simultaneously worked as a newspaper reporter while training and competing as a boxer, making her one of only a few hundred women in America at the time who infiltrated this male-dominated sport. During her boxing career, she won two Golden Gloves championship titles and earned three wins by knockout—and her pro debut at age thirty in the year 2000 was named The California Female Fight of the Year.
A journalist for more than two decades, Alicia has earned a reputation as “The Writer
Specializing in Good News” for authoring thousands of stories about inspirational people and efforts that have a positive impact. Alicia is based in Southern California and is working on a children’s book titled, appropriately, Kid Gloves.
Reviews on Back Cover of Book:
"Absorbing and brilliant! Over 22 years ago I shared the ring with Alicia Doyle...twice. Fighting Chance transported me back to relive those experiences from HER perspective. It was amazing! I highly recommend this book!" – "Amazing" LAYLA MCCARTER, 8 time, 5 division Boxing World Champion & California Boxing Hall of Fame Inductee
"No punches pulled by the hard-hitting Ms. Doyle in her true life novelistic rendering of what it'slike to punch her way to fame! A knockout!!" – IVOR DAVIS, Investigative Journalist & Best-Selling Author of Manson Exposed: A Reporter's 50-Year Journey into Madness and Murder
"Alicia Doyle is a shining example of an individual who continues to fight to save herself from the dark side of life by mentoring troubled young children at Kid Gloves. She is their guiding light, a light that doesn't often shine for them. Fighting Chance is exactly that, a chance to survive in the ring and in life. A must read..."— ROD HOLCOMB, Producer/Director
"Alicia instilled what Kid Gloves Boxing teaches—the A.B.C. Backwards: Conceive, Believe,
Achieve. Building CONFIDENCE in all she does, round by round. A true role model for all."— ROBERT ORTIZ SR., owner of Kid Gloves Boxing
Wednesday, April 1, 2020
This week on Get the Funk Out! 4/6/20 - 9:00am pst, kicking off the show with writer, podcast host, and parenting expert Brandy Ferner. She joins host Janeane for a talk about her debut novel, Adult Conversation
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with Brandy Ferner!
Writer, podcast host, and parenting expert Brandy Ferner. Her debut novel, Adult Conversation, comes out May 5, 2020, She Writes Press).
Ferner is a parenting expert whose writing has previously appeared on Good Morning America, the Huffington Post, Romper, CafeMom, and TODAY Parents. She is also a doula, childbirth educator, and birth trauma mentor, who specializes in helping women through transitions into motherhood.
Adult Conversation
is a frankly told story about two women who embark to reclaim autonomy against the stifling expectations and demands of marriage and motherhood, and hit the road on a hilarious odyssey through the seedy depths of Sin City, the modern day gomorrah otherwise known as Las Vegas, Nevada. What culminates is a tale of self-discovery, empowerment, and the importance of female friendship.
Comedic podcast host, parenting expert tackles absurdities and double standards of motherhood and marriage
ALISO VIEJO, California – In her hilarious debut novel, “Adult Conversation: A Novel” (May 5, 2020, She Writes Press), podcast host and parenting expert Brandy Ferner takes readers on a wild journey toward self-rediscovery amidst the absurd expectations and double standards placed on women in motherhood and marriage. With a mix of Ali Wong-style edgy humor and therapeutic insight, Ferner says out loud what others will not as she delivers a fiercely relatable and empowering read that highlights the importance of reclaiming autonomy, the liberating power of female friendship, and the desire to bail on your family and high-tail it to Las Vegas. Growing up, many women are taught to be invested in a very specific version of the “American Dream”: a perfect marriage, a perfect family, a perfect house, with only organic produce. But what happens when mothers continually sacrifice their needs and sanity in pursuit of perfection?
April is a thoughtful yet sarcastic mother of two who tries her best to be a caring, connected mom in a middle-class culture where mothering has become relentless. April rages at modern motherhood’s impossible pressures, her husband’s “dad privilege,” and her kids’ incessant snack requests. She wants to enjoy motherhood, but her idealist vision and lived experience are in constant conflict with one another. Is she broken — or is motherhood?
Desperate for an answer, she seeks out a therapist, and unexpectedly lands with a woman whose validation and wisdom gives April the clarity to reclaim herself and even start designing clothes again—her pre-motherhood passion. But when the ever-elusive babysitter cancels last-minute, April finds herself back at square one. She seeks guidance from her therapist who is now dealing with her own crumbling marriage—and instead of counseling April, she convinces her to speed off to Las Vegas to help catch her husband cheating. With a little weed, alcohol, and topless pool hopping, plus a male stripper and some much-needed autonomy, the two find lost pieces of themselves that motherhood swallowed up. But neither is prepared for how tested—and tempted—they will be, or for the life-altering choices their journey will force them to make. Who is guiding whom anymore?
Praise for
ADULT CONVERSATION: A NOVEL
“Ferner’s book is at times laugh-out-loud/ so-funny-you-have-to-repeat-aloud-to-the-person- nearest-you, and at times viscerally poignant in how accurately she portrays motherhood — as well as how tenuous working-outside-of-the-home can feel!”
Dr. Darria Long, ER doctor, bestselling author of ‘Mom Hacks’,
national TV regular contributor, and mom
“Ferner nailed it in this sharp-witted debut about the roller coaster ride that is motherhood. Her observations are not only relatable and authentic, but laugh-out-loud funny. You will not be able to put it down, just like your children.”
Emily Liebert, USA Today bestselling author of Pretty Revenge
ADULT CONVERSATION: A NOVEL
Adult Conversation: A Novel
Brandy Ferner | May 5, 2020 | She Writes Press
Fiction - General, Family Life, Humorous, Women

Brandy Ferner is a mother, wife, and the creator of the Adult Conversation podcast, social media pages, and blog. Her writing has been featured on Good Morning America, HuffPost, Romper, CafeMom, TODAY Parents, and more. In addition to writing and fulfilling her kids’ endless snack requests, she spent the past decade working as a doula, childbirth educator, and birth trauma mentor, ushering clients through the intense transition into motherhood. The insight gained from watching moms crack wide open—literally and figuratively—and her own experience as an independent woman who suddenly traded autonomy for snuggles, led her to say out loud the things that modern mothers are thinking. Sometimes it’s serious, sometimes it’s comedic, but it’s always honest. She currently lives in Southern California, and her love language is sleep.
In an interview, Brandy can discuss:
Parenting, childbirth, and birth trauma
Women in media
Feminism and domestic gender politics
The unequal gender roles in parenting
The problem with the self-care trend
The shock of losing your identity when becoming a mother and the work of finding it again
The trickiness of marriage post-kids
“Dad privilege” - a term that refers to the built-in free pass Dads get
How moms have to learn to speak up for what they need
What no one tells you about motherhood
Why modern motherhood is relentless, different from past generations
with Brandy Ferner!
Writer, podcast host, and parenting expert Brandy Ferner. Her debut novel, Adult Conversation, comes out May 5, 2020, She Writes Press).
Ferner is a parenting expert whose writing has previously appeared on Good Morning America, the Huffington Post, Romper, CafeMom, and TODAY Parents. She is also a doula, childbirth educator, and birth trauma mentor, who specializes in helping women through transitions into motherhood.
Adult Conversation
is a frankly told story about two women who embark to reclaim autonomy against the stifling expectations and demands of marriage and motherhood, and hit the road on a hilarious odyssey through the seedy depths of Sin City, the modern day gomorrah otherwise known as Las Vegas, Nevada. What culminates is a tale of self-discovery, empowerment, and the importance of female friendship.
Comedic podcast host, parenting expert tackles absurdities and double standards of motherhood and marriage
ALISO VIEJO, California – In her hilarious debut novel, “Adult Conversation: A Novel” (May 5, 2020, She Writes Press), podcast host and parenting expert Brandy Ferner takes readers on a wild journey toward self-rediscovery amidst the absurd expectations and double standards placed on women in motherhood and marriage. With a mix of Ali Wong-style edgy humor and therapeutic insight, Ferner says out loud what others will not as she delivers a fiercely relatable and empowering read that highlights the importance of reclaiming autonomy, the liberating power of female friendship, and the desire to bail on your family and high-tail it to Las Vegas. Growing up, many women are taught to be invested in a very specific version of the “American Dream”: a perfect marriage, a perfect family, a perfect house, with only organic produce. But what happens when mothers continually sacrifice their needs and sanity in pursuit of perfection?
April is a thoughtful yet sarcastic mother of two who tries her best to be a caring, connected mom in a middle-class culture where mothering has become relentless. April rages at modern motherhood’s impossible pressures, her husband’s “dad privilege,” and her kids’ incessant snack requests. She wants to enjoy motherhood, but her idealist vision and lived experience are in constant conflict with one another. Is she broken — or is motherhood?
Desperate for an answer, she seeks out a therapist, and unexpectedly lands with a woman whose validation and wisdom gives April the clarity to reclaim herself and even start designing clothes again—her pre-motherhood passion. But when the ever-elusive babysitter cancels last-minute, April finds herself back at square one. She seeks guidance from her therapist who is now dealing with her own crumbling marriage—and instead of counseling April, she convinces her to speed off to Las Vegas to help catch her husband cheating. With a little weed, alcohol, and topless pool hopping, plus a male stripper and some much-needed autonomy, the two find lost pieces of themselves that motherhood swallowed up. But neither is prepared for how tested—and tempted—they will be, or for the life-altering choices their journey will force them to make. Who is guiding whom anymore?
Praise for
ADULT CONVERSATION: A NOVEL
“Ferner’s book is at times laugh-out-loud/ so-funny-you-have-to-repeat-aloud-to-the-person- nearest-you, and at times viscerally poignant in how accurately she portrays motherhood — as well as how tenuous working-outside-of-the-home can feel!”
Dr. Darria Long, ER doctor, bestselling author of ‘Mom Hacks’,
national TV regular contributor, and mom
“Ferner nailed it in this sharp-witted debut about the roller coaster ride that is motherhood. Her observations are not only relatable and authentic, but laugh-out-loud funny. You will not be able to put it down, just like your children.”
Emily Liebert, USA Today bestselling author of Pretty Revenge
ADULT CONVERSATION: A NOVEL
Adult Conversation: A Novel
Brandy Ferner | May 5, 2020 | She Writes Press
Fiction - General, Family Life, Humorous, Women
More about BRANDY FERNER
Brandy Ferner is a mother, wife, and the creator of the Adult Conversation podcast, social media pages, and blog. Her writing has been featured on Good Morning America, HuffPost, Romper, CafeMom, TODAY Parents, and more. In addition to writing and fulfilling her kids’ endless snack requests, she spent the past decade working as a doula, childbirth educator, and birth trauma mentor, ushering clients through the intense transition into motherhood. The insight gained from watching moms crack wide open—literally and figuratively—and her own experience as an independent woman who suddenly traded autonomy for snuggles, led her to say out loud the things that modern mothers are thinking. Sometimes it’s serious, sometimes it’s comedic, but it’s always honest. She currently lives in Southern California, and her love language is sleep.
In an interview, Brandy can discuss:
Parenting, childbirth, and birth trauma
Women in media
Feminism and domestic gender politics
The unequal gender roles in parenting
The problem with the self-care trend
The shock of losing your identity when becoming a mother and the work of finding it again
The trickiness of marriage post-kids
“Dad privilege” - a term that refers to the built-in free pass Dads get
How moms have to learn to speak up for what they need
What no one tells you about motherhood
Why modern motherhood is relentless, different from past generations
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